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Pregnancy #4: 6w3d

 Today was a fun day - we spent the morning at my friend's house with a bunch of my other friends and their kids. There was one 4 year old, one 3 year old, two 2 year olds, one 1 year old, and 3 babies under 1. 

I struggled though. One of my friends' wives is pregnant and due in March. I couldn't congratulate her, and I couldn't help feeling sad. I could tell my husband felt the same way when I shared the news with him. 

I have also been trying to work through this resource I saw shared on Instagram called the Hustle Sanely Workbook. I thought it would be helpful to set some goals for myself to help balance work and my personal life but I wonder if it is making me feel worse, or if I'm doing that to myself?

I don't feel positive about a lot of things. I have a few hobbies like reading, but not a whole lot of wide interests. We don't travel a lot - for multiple reasons - and it makes me feel like we're the only ones sometimes. My body isn't something I like, and I feel like I don't know how to shop or dress anymore especially casually. My job has been very draining, and I feel stuck there until I have another baby. I love our house, but I don't feel like I do a great job maintaining it, decorating it, or finding exterior things to do with it like flowers. All that on top of trying to conceive makes me feel down. 

How do you know if you need an anti-depressant? I feel like I would know...

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